Saturday, June 20, 2009

Comparison is lethal to contentment

Just finished reading...

A well-timed, aptly-titled article in July's VOGUE.

Reality Check
written by Maggie McGuane has inspired me.



Newly divorced, mother of 2 exposes her trials of going from riches to rags. Not a sob story, by any stretch. Instead, a tale of decifering needs from wants and getting creative in order to provide for herself & her family.



Some highlights:

"I was weighted down by my oppressive sense of entitlement.

My expectations brought chronic disappointment. Clearly, I needed to appraise them."



"I needed to learn how to "make do," a concept so entirely out of fashion that the phrase connotes English war brides or repressed 1950s housewives....There was a house to make into a home...the task of creating a life going forward that was just as rich and full as it had been when money was more plentiful".



"Luxuries I once deemed necessities, from organic baby greens to face lotion from the depths of the ocean, were placed back in the category where they belonged.

I was forced to admit that though I wanted some things very much, I was not entitled to them."



"I turned the thermostat down, way down-there's a photo of our last family Thanksgiving in which we're all wearing our coats at the dinner table. I stocked the Deepfreeze...so we weren't tempted by an empty fridge to eat out."



"I still crave beautiful things; I just wait a little longer to get them."



"Comparison is lethal to contentment..."



Golly, was this a reality check for me. What I think I'm entitled to-either because we have the money in the bank to pay for it or because plenty of people have them-therefore I'm not being unreasonable and what I actually need get muddled.



I 110% believe that "comparison is lethal to contentment."

From your own body image to your material possessions, your vacations to your achievements, you name it-it applies.







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4 comments:

  1. Wow Tina!! This topic is what I began to write about just the other day and am almost ready to post, God must be sending messages all over!!
    Loved it, thanks!
    Julie

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  2. I realize my comment is a little late but I just stumbled upon your blog... Thank you, I am so glad you liked the piece!
    Maggie McGuane

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  3. Panel çit Fiyat
    Çit
    Tel örgü
    Panel tel çit

    Ankara ve tüm Türkiye geneli satış yapan firmamız Tel örgü ürünleri ve bahçe çiti - panel çit - jilet tel - kafes tel satışı yapmaktadır.

    Bahçe çiti ve teli siparişleri alınır ayrıca Sincan Tel örgü ve çim çit - kafes tel - jiletli tel - bahçe çiti ürünleri burada

    Bahçe çitleri firması kafes tel örgü ve benzeri Panel çit ürünleri satışında lider firma konumundadır, Panel çit - tel çit - çim çit - satışları
    Türkiye geneli çit imalatı ürünleri pazarlaması yapan ve Panel çit imalatı yapan firmamız Panel çit fiyatları konusunda en iddalı firmalar arasında yer almaktadır. Tel örgü ve bahçe çiti ürünleri burada.

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