"dear readers, i want to talk to you about the subject of plans...
how we all make them.
how we hope our kids make good, smart, solid plans of their own.
if we're really honest with ourselves our plans don't work out as we hoped.
so instead of asking our young people,
"what are your plans?", "what do you plan to do with your life?"
maybe we should tell them this: plan to be surprised"-dan, dan in real life